A common phrase: love is not just about the physical connection between 2 people.
Many might have already understood this, and already moved on from it. They may be attached or still looking, but i only learnt it when i’m attached. After you’re attached, touch becomes a part of your love language and the desire begins to grow in you. There are many instances when i just wanna be close, but there’s always the little voice telling me that there is more to it than just being touchy. It is about the knowing each other to the point where your hearts start to connect. It is about learning about each other till you’re ready to live with him. This, takes much time and effort and reliance on God.
It all begins with little steps. The little step to like you, then to know you as friend, then to date you…these are all little steps that brought us here.